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Mending the Broken Link

What do you do in a relationship when distance has come between you and your love? Do you give up and start over somewhere else? Do you ignore it and hope it goes away? The one person who gives you the greatest joy can also inflict the greatest pain, but if it was not for that person, there would be no reason to live. The sun would not be as bright and there would be no pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. The distance may have driven the spike in your golden link of love, but a once broken chain can always be mended.

While the above “solutions” are nothing more than easy answers, they are by no means the correct answer. If love were easy, 50% of our marriages wouldn’t end in divorce. Divorce is the answer for the hopeless, the ones who cannot troubleshoot their problems and decide to go the easy route: run away from the issues. If I was a quitter, I would have stopped being an Information Technology man a long time ago. With this line of work, I have learned perseverance and have taken my learning lumps along the way. Even though a computer is a machine, it seems to know when to dump on you in your most vulnerable moments.

With this knowledge, embarking on a road of repair is nothing more than a fact of life. As I move down my road to repair, wish me luck. If you find yourself in similar situations, I wish you luck. Find your support blocks to help you through these times. Stay strong in your quest and never forget the rewards in the pot of gold. Even if IT has not taught you perseverance, hopefully something along the way has. Death is the only thing in this life which is hopeless and as long as there is still air in your lungs, you have the power and drive inside to mend any break in a relationship. Nothing is more powerful than the human spirit.

Enjoy your loved ones during the holidays and take this time of joy to repair broken links. Have a good one. Peace.